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I wanted to be an independent woman, a woman who could pay for her bills, a woman who could run her own life. And I became that woman - Diane von Furstenberg

I just heard Beyonce songs “Pretty Hurts”, it kind of remind me to my post last year about pretty, here (sometimes I thought that maybe Beyonce read my blog and inspired to make it to be her new songs, who knows). I like the songs and the lyrics is really deep, but not in the video. I think it will be better if more like documentary about two person, the first one is girl who saving her money to do some plastic operation (probably nose job, boob job, or all of her face) and the second one is an anorexic girl. Well, that’s just some my opinions, I don’t really care about it (I don’t wanna talk about her new album here), she still The Queen B. What I love from Beyonce is she a strong independent and brave women. She made the new shape of beauty to vogue which is curvy, and you all know that the real woman is women with a curve, right. Today I’m not gonna talk about Beyonce neither her new album. But I’m gonna talk about the definitions of happiness for women (yes I said women, not girl).

Long ago the little girl ask her mom to read bedtime story, and then her mom read Snow white and Cinderella and more fairy princess tale for her. As the time goes by, the little girl grew up, and she have a dream that someday she will meet her handsome prince (in the story, it always the first men that she met for entire live except her father or any relations) with shining armor and riding white horse to save her from her lonely night. And then when she met him, a true kiss will seal their love and protect them from bad thing, then they get married a day after and then they live happily ever after. Well, what crazy shit story for a little girl…!!!!. (This is the reason why I love Mulan and Frozen, they tell every other girl to be strong and independent women)


That’s a reason why women is desperately trying so hard finding their “prince”, because when they were a little girl, they hypnotized with all the princess fairy shit tale. And they want married with their “prince” while they still don’t need Botox for their face. They do believe that the only you can live happily ever after is with someone else. Well, reality sucks bitches. There’s no way you can met a stranger handsome guy that loves you too and then propose you. Although you can marry those “prince” types, ladies are sure you can still be living happily ever after that. Fact you probably get divorced, fact you probably will be killed because he tired with your crap, fact you probably cheating each other without knowing (it’s not like an open marriage), or else.

In my country lots of young girl wants married soon, the reason is because they are women and it’s a bad luck not marriage soon. The averages old to marriage in here are around 18 till 25. Most of them get married because they want it to, or baby on board (married by accident), or religious reason. And all of those reasons really make me sick and I hate those girls. I think they just like giving up all of the potentials and their precious goal dream. I mean its 2014 now, standard get higher, dream are more crazy and unlimited, and women can rule the world too. Don’t be a weak and just an ordinary women who stay at home and taking care house and children. My shout to all of you girls “NO, YOU CAN DO CRAZY, YOU CAN CHASE YOUR DREAM, BE BRAVE AND BE AMBITIOUS…!!!”


I as a man, more appreciate an independent women and chasing her dream than a girl who always chasing one guy to another because they desperately don’t wanna be alone. And I had dealing with this problem (not me, actually my girlfriends). They have push by society to get married soon, I mean like seriously they even just graduated. Don’t y’all ladies wanna get a job and be a professional in it, travel the world to upgrade your perception, or spend all of your money with some Chanel, LV, or some blinks maybe. Don’t you wanna achieve your goals with your own pain and sweats? Don’t you wanna to proof something to the world? Or do you wanna be standing behind your man’s shadows.

Don’t be afraid to against the world out there, girls. If you afraid, a bunch of friend will support and cheer you up, no need a man for that. Time to makes a decision, girls. It’s your call


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